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L’ALGORITHME DU BONHEUR - L’ENNEMI DU BONHEUR

31 mars 2021

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Écrit par:  Luc Dumont 

Ne faites rien par esprit de parti ou par vaine gloire, mais que l’humilité vous fasse regarder les autres comme étant au-dessus de vous-mêmes. 
Philippiens 2:3

En 374 av. J.-C., Isocrate, un célèbre professeur de rhétorique a déclaré quelque chose qui est encore pertinent de nos jours :

« Repousse ceux qui te flattent autant que ceux qui te diminuent, car les uns et les autres quand on les écoute font tort à ceux qui les croient. »

En d’autres mots, quand nous acceptons les flatteries de ceux qui exagèrent à notre sujet, nous devenons inévitablement victimes de ceux qui nous rabaissent.

L’égo personnel est un ennemi terrible du bonheur qui s’acharne à nous faire croire que nous sommes plus que ce que nous sommes en réalité. De plus, lorsque nous n’avons pas la vie méritée selon notre égo, nous sombrons dans le découragement et la tristesse. Si, par exemple, mon égo réussit à me convaincre que je suis censé devenir le leader d’une grande église, mais qu’en réalité je ne possède pas les dons ni les capacités pour l’être, je vais envier ceux qui le font tout en méprisant ce que je fais en ce moment. En effet, je vais croire que je suis appelé à la direction d’une grande assemblée.

L’égo veut nous faire sortir de notre couloir et de ce que nous sommes réellement appelés à faire. Pendant la Seconde Guerre Mondiale, le président Roosevelt a approché le général Marshall pour lui offrir le commandement du fameux Jour J : il devait gérer le débarquement des forces alliées pour libérer l’Europe de l’Allemagne nazie. C’était le rêve de tous les généraux. Toutefois, Roosevelt reconnaissait qu’Eisenhower était bien plus compétent pour cette tâche que lui. Alors, il n’hésitait pas à céder sa place. Combien de généraux dans l’histoire en n’étant pas à leur place, se sont retrouvés à des postes de commandement où ils ont envoyé à la mort des soldats, à cause de leur égo  !

Il n’y a rien de plus inconfortable que de se retrouver hors de ce que Dieu veut pour toi. L’égo non maitrisé gâchera ton bonheur. Le célèbre financier Warren Buffet a dit : « la meilleure chose est d’apprendre des erreurs des autres au lieu des nôtres. » Lorsque nous tirons des leçons de nos erreurs, nous pouvons en souffrir pendant des années. Lorsque nous le faisons pour celles des autres, nous pouvons nous épargner une décennie de souffrances. Pour pouvoir apprendre des erreurs des autres, il faut avoir un esprit enseignable, lequel ne s’atteint que par l’humilité : accepter qu’un autre nous enseigne.

« … que l’humilité vous fasse regarder les autres comme étant au-dessus de vous-mêmes. »
Philippiens 2:3

L’égo non maitrisé gâchera ton bonheur.

C’est impossible d’apprendre ce que l’on croit déjà savoir. On ne peut devenir meilleur si on est convaincu de l’être déjà. Cette attitude inspirée de notre égo nous envoie souvent droit vers le mur de la souffrance et nous prive du bonheur. Si, par exemple, je crois que je n’ai pas besoin d’apprendre à gérer mes finances personnelles, si je refuse de laisser quelqu’un qui a réussi à m’enseigner ou si je fais une succession de mauvais choix entrainant la faillite et des années de douleurs, mon égo m’aura privé d’années remplies de paix, d’esprit et de joie.

Pourquoi le succès est-il si souvent éphémère dans la vie d’une personne qui atteint le sommet ? C’est l’égo qui le raccourcit. Nous cessons d’apprendre et nous n’écoutons plus les autres autour de nous. Alors, nous finissons par tomber de haut et une fois de plus, le bonheur disparait.

Ralph Waldo Emerson a dit : « tout homme que je rencontre m’est supérieur en quelque chose. » Imagine une vie guidée par l’humilité. Par exemple, pense à des jeunes mariés qui se laissent conseiller par un couple ayant réussi son mariage ou bien à un individu qui est enseigné par un autre ayant atteint la liberté financière.

C’est aussi écouter la sagesse d’un homme ou d’une femme de Dieu sur la vie spirituelle ou demander conseil à des parents qui ont réussi avec leurs enfants ou encore se laisser inspirer et influencer par des gens qui sont en santé et qui mangent sainement.

Être humble, c’est accepter d’être corrigé, enseigné, guidé vers la réussite. Je peux t’assurer que le bonheur sera par cette attitude au rendez-vous. L’égo est l’ennemi de ton bonheur, car il veut des résultats immédiats qui frappent l’œil. L’égo veut dépasser et être mieux que tout le monde. Il ne veut pas payer le prix et demeure la cause de plusieurs de nos déboires. Celui qui le maitrise héritera du bonheur : c’est assuré.

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